{"id":1900,"date":"2011-07-07T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2011-07-07T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www2.memri.org\/polaco\/kuwejcka-dzialaczka-polityczna-salwa-al-mteiri-wzywa-do-ustanowienia-prawa-pozwalajacego-kuwejckim-kobietom-na-kupowanie-mezow-za-granica\/1900"},"modified":"2011-07-07T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2011-07-07T00:00:00","slug":"kuwejcka-dzialaczka-polityczna-salwa-al-mteiri-wzywa-do-ustanowienia-prawa-pozwalajacego-kuwejckim-kobietom-na-kupowanie-mezow-za-granica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www2.memri.org\/polish\/kuwejcka-dzialaczka-polityczna-salwa-al-mteiri-wzywa-do-ustanowienia-prawa-pozwalajacego-kuwejckim-kobietom-na-kupowanie-mezow-za-granica\/1900","title":{"rendered":"Kuwejcka dzia\u0142aczka polityczna Salwa Al-Mteiri wzywa do ustanowienia prawa pozwalaj\u0105cego kuwejckim kobietom na kupowanie m\u0119\u017c\u00f3w za granic\u0105"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!-- Document Body --><br \/>\n<DIV ALIGN=\"justify\" CLASS=\"bodytext\"><br \/>\n<P><I>Poni\u017cej podajemy fragmenty wywiadu z kuwejck\u0105 dzia\u0142aczk\u0105 polityczn\u0105 Salw\u0105 Al-Mteiri, nadanego przez Al-Hayat TV 1 lipca 2011 r.<\/I><br \/>\n<P align=\"center\"><IFRAME height=\"485\" src=\"http:\/\/www.memritv.org\/player\/largePlayer.php?&#038;width=585&#038;height=485&#038;autoplay=1&#038;clipid=3016\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"585\" allowTransparency scrolling=\"no\"><\/IFRAME><br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: &#8222;I thought that if the age of slave-girls was restored in a proper legal fashion, it could be a solution [to many problems], Allah willing.&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><B>Interviewer<\/B>: &#8222;Will women and wives in Kuwait welcome the idea of slave-girls, and have their husband go to some office and buy a slave-girl or two? How will they accept it?&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: &#8222;The believing woman is content with the law of Allah, and with what her religion requires her to do. In my opinion, this is the best solution to reduce the rate of marital betrayal and the spread of disease. This is a problem not only in Kuwait, but throughout the world.&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><B>Interviewer<\/B>: &#8222;Apart from slave-girls, you are demanding that a law be legislated that would permit a Kuwaiti woman to go and buy a husband with special traits from Europe or the Balkan countries. Explain this to me.&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: &#8222;In my view, a woman&#8217;s pride is her most precious thing. If she is educated, owns a house, and has financial means, why shouldn&#8217;t she help a man from a country with a Muslim community? She would help him enter the country, and they would set up a home together.&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><B>Interviewer<\/B>: &#8222;But wouldn&#8217;t she feel that she was buying a husband with her money?&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: &#8222;No, she is helping him. Why do we always distort things and not look at the full picture? On the contrary, she is helping him. She pays for the visa so that he can come, and that way she feels she is helping him, and in return, he helps her to start a family, he helps her in life, and he honors her by making her his wife and the mother of his children.&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><B>Interviewer<\/B>: &#8222;Do you think that Kuwaiti men will welcome this call? He might say: 'I am a fellow citizen of yours, and you go and bring a husband from abroad?!&#8217; I noticed that you said: 'Just like we think about improving the quality of air and we plant a million trees, I am thinking about improving the quality of offspring to come.&#8217; You are hinting, in fact, that such husbands have special attributes and are good-looking.&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: &#8222;That is true. We have many Muslim communities [in the Arab countries], but they come from very poor countries, and I don&#8217;t think they are very productive when they enter the country. If they were to come from European countries, I think they would improve the country. I have noticed this in Dubai. When they came to Dubai, it turned into a leading country in the world. It became a well-known country. I hope that the same thing will happen to Kuwait. Incidentally, I propose this for the entire Arab world, not just for Kuwait.<br \/>\n<P>&#8222;Why did I choose this group? Because some educated women do not agree to be controlled by men. They prefer a husband who is more like a friend to them. As you know, Arab men like to think of themselves as the master of the house, and they consider women to be inferior to them, while European men view women as their friends. Some women like this kind of thing &#8211; to be a wife and a friend, and to be respected because she is educated and her family invested in her, so she is not prepared to be looked down on. I think that on the contrary\u2026&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><B>Interviewer<\/B>: &#8222;You said that there are confrontations with Kuwaiti husbands, which lead to divorce. So it is better to turn to the option of importing such a husband, who would do his wife&#8217;s bidding, obey her, and pamper her, and that way, she would spend the best days of her life with him, without any clashes or fights.&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: &#8222;Yes, that is what we wish for, and it is what we demand of him. If he violates any clause of the contract, he will bear the consequences\u2026&#8221;<br \/>\n<P><BR><br \/>\n<!--\nEnd Content --><!--\ncontent ends here --><!---END-PF---><br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: Uwa\u017cam, \u017ce je\u015bli zostanie przywr\u00f3cona epoka niewolnic w poprawny, legalny spos\u00f3b, mo\u017ce to by\u0107 rozwi\u0105zaniem [dla wielu problem\u00f3w], z wol\u0105 Allaha.<br \/>\n<P><B>Dziennikarka<\/B>: Czy kobiety i \u017cony w Kuwejcie przyjm\u0105 pomys\u0142 niewolnic i to, \u017ce ich m\u0119\u017cowie p\u00f3jd\u0105 do jakiego\u015b biura i kupi\u0105 sobie jedn\u0105 albo dwie niewolnice? Jak to zaakceptuj\u0105?<br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: Wierz\u0105ca kobieta jest zadowolona z prawa Allaha i z tego, czego wymaga od niej jej religia. Moim zdaniem jest to najlepsze rozwi\u0105zanie dla zmniejszenia zdrad ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144skich i szerzenia si\u0119 chor\u00f3b. To jest problem nie tylko w Kuwejcie, ale na ca\u0142ym \u015bwiecie.<br \/>\n<P><B>Dziennikarka<\/B>: Poza niewolnicami domaga si\u0119 pani uchwalenia prawa, kt\u00f3re pozwoli\u0142oby kuwejckiej kobiecie na kupienie sobie m\u0119\u017ca o specjalnych cechach z Europy lub z kraj\u00f3w ba\u0142ka\u0144skich. Prosz\u0119 mi to wyja\u015bni\u0107.<br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: Moim zdaniem duma kobiety jest jej najcenniejsz\u0105 rzecz\u0105. Je\u015bli jest wykszta\u0142cona, posiada dom i ma \u015brodki finansowe, dlaczego nie mia\u0142aby pom\u00f3c m\u0119\u017cczy\u017anie z kraju z muzu\u0142ma\u0144sk\u0105 spo\u0142eczno\u015bci\u0105? Pomog\u0142aby mu wjecha\u0107 do kraju i razem za\u0142o\u017cyliby dom.<br \/>\n<P><B>Dziennikarka<\/B>: Ale czy nie uwa\u017ca\u0142aby, \u017ce kupuje m\u0119\u017ca za pieni\u0105dze?<br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: Nie, ona jemu pomaga. Dlaczego musimy zawsze wypacza\u0107 sprawy i nie widzie\u0107 pe\u0142nego obrazu? Wr\u0119cz przeciwnie, ona jemu pomaga. Ona p\u0142aci za wiz\u0119, \u017ceby m\u00f3g\u0142 przyjecha\u0107 i w ten spos\u00f3b czuje, \u017ce mu pomaga, a w zamian on pomaga jej za\u0142o\u017cy\u0107 rodzin\u0119, pomaga jej w \u017cyciu i okazuje jej szacunek przez uczynienie jej swoj\u0105 \u017con\u0105 i matk\u0105 swoich dzieci.<br \/>\n<P><B>Dziennikarka<\/B>: Czy s\u0105dzi pani, \u017ce kuwejccy m\u0119\u017cczy\u017ani przyjm\u0105 z zadowoleniem to wezwanie? Mo\u017ce on powiedzie\u0107: \u201eJestem twoim wsp\u00f3\u0142obywatelem, a ty idziesz i sprowadzasz m\u0119\u017ca z zagranicy?!\u201d Zauwa\u017cy\u0142am, \u017ce powiedzia\u0142a pani: \u201eTak samo jak my\u015blimy o polepszeniu jako\u015bci powietrza i sadzimy milion drzew, my\u015bl\u0119 o polepszeniu jako\u015bci przysz\u0142ego potomstwa\u201d. W rzeczywisto\u015bci napomyka pani, \u017ce tacy m\u0119\u017cowie b\u0119d\u0105 mieli specjalne przymioty i b\u0119d\u0105 przystojni.<br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: To prawda. Mamy wiele spo\u0142eczno\u015bci muzu\u0142ma\u0144skich [w krajach arabskich], ale pochodz\u0105 z bardzo biednych kraj\u00f3w i nie my\u015bl\u0119, by byli bardzo produktywni, kiedy przyjad\u0105 tutaj. Gdyby mieli przyby\u0107 z kraj\u00f3w europejskich, my\u015bl\u0119, \u017ce ulepszyliby ten kraj. Zauwa\u017cy\u0142am to w Dubaju. Kiedy przybyli do Dubaju, zamienili go w wiod\u0105cy kraj \u015bwiata. Sta\u0142 si\u0119 dobrze znanym krajem. Mam nadziej\u0119, \u017ce to samo zdarzy si\u0119 w Kuwejcie. Nawiasem m\u00f3wi\u0105c proponuj\u0119 to dla ca\u0142ego \u015bwiata arabskiego, nie tylko dla Kuwejtu.<br \/>\n<P>Dlaczego wybra\u0142am t\u0119 grup\u0119? Poniewa\u017c niekt\u00f3re wykszta\u0142cone kobiety nie zgadzaj\u0105 si\u0119 na to, by panowali nad nimi m\u0119\u017cczy\u017ani. Wol\u0105 m\u0119\u017ca, kt\u00f3ry jest dla nich bardziej jak przyjaciel. Jak pani wie, arabscy m\u0119\u017cczy\u017ani lubi\u0105 my\u015ble\u0107 o sobie jako o panu domu i uwa\u017caj\u0105, \u017ce kobieta jest od nich gorsza, podczas gdy europejscy m\u0119\u017cczy\u017ani patrz\u0105 na kobiety jak na przyjaci\u00f3\u0142ki. Niekt\u00f3re kobiety lubi\u0105 ten typ zachowa\u0144 \u2013 by\u0107 \u017con\u0105 i przyjaci\u00f3\u0142k\u0105, i by\u0107 szanowan\u0105, poniewa\u017c jest wykszta\u0142cona i rodzina w ni\u0105 zainwestowa\u0142a, nie jest wi\u0119c przygotowana na to, by patrzono na ni\u0105 z g\u00f3ry. My\u015bl\u0119, \u017ce wr\u0119cz przeciwnie\u2026<br \/>\n<P><B>Dziennikarka<\/B>: Powiedzia\u0142a pani, \u017ce s\u0105 tarcia z kuwejckimi m\u0119\u017cami, kt\u00f3re prowadz\u0105 do rozwodu. Jest wi\u0119c lepiej zwr\u00f3ci\u0107 si\u0119 do mo\u017cliwo\u015bci importowania takiego m\u0119\u017ca, kt\u00f3ry b\u0119dzie wykonywa\u0142 polecenia swojej \u017cony, s\u0142ucha\u0142 jej i rozpieszcza\u0142 j\u0105, i w ten spos\u00f3b sp\u0119dzi najlepsze dni swojego \u017cycia z nim, bez \u017cadnych star\u0107 ani walk.<br \/>\n<P><B>Salwa Al-Mteiri<\/B>: Tak, tego jej \u017cyczymy i tego wymagamy od niego. Je\u015bli naruszy jak\u0105kolwiek klauzul\u0119 kontraktu, poniesie konsekwencje\u2026<br \/>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Poni\u017cej podajemy fragmenty wywiadu z kuwejck\u0105 dzia\u0142aczk\u0105 polityczn\u0105 Salw\u0105 Al-Mteiri, nadanego przez Al-Hayat TV 1 lipca 2011 r. 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